Build a good relationship first
Stepparents must remember that it takes time for stepchildren to accept a new parent. The first few years are very difficult. In the early stages of remarriage, both sons and daughters are hostile and angry not only at their stepfather but at their mother. They’re mad at their mother for remarrying. Stepparents must try to understand the feelings of the children. Step parenting is truly a challenge. Build a good relationship first. Stepparents will be in a better position to correct their stepchildren’s behavior after they have built a good relationship with them. In the meanwhile, it may be best for the natural parent to handle needed discipline.
